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History of The Reality Guru

I started www.dropmydime.com a few years ago with the intention of educating and informing people of my opinions in regards to issues in today’s society. It picked up nicely and the responses from all of you have been great. But last year I was asked by one of the commenters about my past and how I came to write about the things I do today. I was unsure if my past was something that I wanted to delve into in such a public manner but you have to try everything at least once. So, in light of that commenter, I have decided to share with you all the history of The Reality Guru.

Born and raised in the ghetto, I’ve seen more than my fair share of racism, hatred, and death. For the most part I have walked the streets and seen the very things that I write and contest to here on Freedom Speaks. Growing up my mother was a crack head and my father was a gang banger. There were many sleepless nights on the floor, homeless, and sometimes hungry even. I hid under my covers from the gun shots ringing through my windows from down the street. I’ve watched the group fights and the bullying inflicted upon the ones who were viewed as different. I went to the schools that all the other kids in the ghetto went too. The one’s with the teachers that didn’t have the patience to find the real problem with the children in their classes. The one’s with the outdated text books and overcrowded classrooms.

I was even luck enough to have this one third grade class where I had a black teacher. She was new to the school, very educated if I must say, but clearly not very liked by administration. Either that or the school felt the need to complete their “diversity” quota. Anyway, when they did the class assignments someone thought it would be a good idea to stick all of us ghetto, minority kids in one classroom with the new black teacher. That was by far one of the best years I had had in school. She taught us respect and that just because we were “ghetto” or minorities, as everyone classified us, it did not mean that were not entitled to everything that everyone else was entitled too. She taught us diversity and culture. Everything she taught us was great and knowledgeable and something that you could value for life. But like all good things in the ghetto, the encouragement didn’t last very long once school was over and I was back subject to the harsh realities of my neighborhood.

 Like many of the kids in the ghetto’s today, I was surrounded by the very same negative behaviors of crime and drugs, and even at one point believed that was how life was supposed to be. By the time I was 15, I was addicted to both weed and alcohol. Lived my life in the streets and did pretty much whatever I wanted because I felt my life was almost over anyway as the kids on my block didn’t tend to live very long. Our obituaries were either signed by death or a life sentence in the state prison.

Once my mother got cleaned up she tried to move us out of the hood but mentally the damage was already done. My eyes had already been subjected to the flaws in the world. But things changed for me once I got into high school. Despite my history, my school grades were good enough to get me into a vocational high school. At first I felt out of place but it was the first time in my entire life where I felt like I had a chance at becoming something. It was the first time where I had been in an environment that displayed constant positivity and this constant positivity is what changed my life.

Once I seen that I could be something and that there were people that wanted me to become something, I then had something to live for. It was at that point that I made up my mind that I would live every day in a manner that would influence someone else to strive for more. Strive for better in themselves.  It is still a work in progress, but I’ve made that dedication and have lived by it ever since.

If this website or any book that I write helps only one child get out of the street and make something of him/herself, then my job is done. If I reach more than one, then my life will be beyond satisfactory.

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Samuel Yette: A National Visionary

Educator and fighter for African American justice, Samuel Yette’s has died at the tender age of 81. Yette’s walked the lines with many of our prestigious leaders like Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. He spoke out freely about the issues in Black America and the struggle to survive. With publications “The Choice: The Issue of Black Survival in America” and “Washington and Two Marches, 1963 & 1983: The Third American Revolution”, Yette was not shy when it came to reporting on the flaws in society and justice. He was proud and fair in his endeavors to equality. 

Today we remember Samuel Yette as the man who changed all and inspired many. With a career in journalism and education we all have benefited from the many things he has done.

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Right to a Choice

 With the oncoming of Black History Month, a month that celebrates progress and equality, what better way to start the appreciation than with the anniversary of Roe v. Wade?

Norma Leah McCorvey, better known as Jane Roe, is a woman who felt that she had the right to an abortion if she so chose. Prior to the 1973 ruling a woman was only legally able to obtain an abortion if she attested her pregnancy to rape. Unable to prove her accusations of rape as they were not true, Roe joined forces with two attorneys and filed a suit against the state of Texas to challenge its abortion prohibition law. Though some may have viewed Jane Roe as promiscuous considering the fact that she was 21 years old and pregnant with her third child, that does not justify taking away her right to choose.

On January 22, 1973 the Supreme Court made the decision that a woman has the right to choose to have an abortion until she has reached viability in her pregnancy. The court based its decision on “right of privacy, whether it be founded in the Fourteenth Amendment’s concept of personal liberty and restrictions upon state action, as we feel it is, or, as the District Court determined, in the Ninth Amendment’s reservation of rights to the people, is broad enough to encompass a woman’s decision whether or not to terminate her pregnancy”.

Today, January 24, 2011 marks the day of another rally from both sides of the debate. A debate which has drawn much attention and caused much frustration nationwide since the initial court decision. Though Jane Roe later changed her stance on abortion, the nation is still split on the issue.

All lives are worth preserving and children are the holders of our future. However, sometimes things happen that we do not always intend to happen or are ready for. Then there are always the situations that we are forced into without our own consent. So as the debate continues and lives are forever changed, should a woman be forced to care for a child she conceived or should she have the choice to do what she feels is best for her?

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In The News: First Lady, Cabinet Members, to Speak at Mentoring Summit

January 21, 2011: First Lady of the United States Michelle Obama will provide the keynote address at the first National Mentoring Summit January 25 at The Library of Congress in Washington, D.C. The Summit, titled “Achieving Academic and Social Success: Supporting Youth through Mentoring,” brings together leading mentoring organizations, as well as federal and state government and civic leaders, to develop strategies that leverage mentoring to increase graduation rates among America’s youth and position them for success.

The First Lady will announce The Corporate Mentoring Challenge, an initiative led by the Corporation for National and Community Service (CNCS) to encourage U.S. companies to launch a mentoring program, expand existing employee mentoring programs or provide resources to support local mentoring programs that help youth gain leadership skills, achieve their educational goals and increase their confidence. United States Attorney General Eric Holder, Jr., U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services Kathleen Sebelius, U.S. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan, and CEO of the Corporation for National and Community Service Patrick Corvington will participate in a panel discussion following the First Lady’s remarks about the administration’s work to use mentoring as a tool to improve educational outcomes and reduce juvenile delinquency. The panel will be moderated by Director of the White House’s Office of Faith-based and Neighborhood Partnerships Joshua DuBois.

Companies already stepping up to The Corporate Mentoring Challenge are Bank of America, Deloitte, Viacom, Comcast, Bloomingdale’s, Macy’s and AT&T. They are committing within the next year to either continue building on existing mentoring programs through expansion, launching new programs or developing new tools and resources for mentors.

Bank of America is the Presenting Sponsor of the National Mentoring Summit. “Along with the First Lady and Cabinet members, whose support is beyond measure, we also appreciate the involvement of numerous Congressional representatives from both sides of the aisle,” said MENTOR’s President and CEO Dr. Larry Wright. “MENTOR and our colleagues hosting this Summit are delighted to have government, youth-serving organizations, corporations and researchers focusing on how we can work together to bring quality mentoring to the 15 million kids in America who want and need a caring adult in their lives.”

The National Mentoring Summit is hosted by MENTOR, CNCS, the Harvard School of Public Health and the U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention. It will provide the culminating moment for the 10th anniversary of National Mentoring Month, a media campaign that raises awareness around mentoring led by the Harvard School of Public Health, MENTOR and CNCS.
MENTOR’s Board Chairman Willem Kooyker will serve as the Summit Chair. Founding Partners for the Summit are America’s Promise Alliance, Big Brothers Big Sisters of America, Boys and Girls Clubs of America, City Year, College Success Foundation, Communities In Schools, Dare Mighty Things, Inc, Mentoring USA, National Alliance of Faith and Justice, National Dropout Prevention Center, National Collaboration for Youth, National CARES Mentoring Movement, Points of Light Institute and United Way Worldwide.

Registration for the Summit has closed due to a capacity crowd, but additional information about the event can be found at www.mentoring.org/summit.

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Associated Press: Student tracking finds limited learning in college

You are told that to make it life, you must go to college. You work hard to get there. You or your parents drain savings or take out huge loans to pay for it all.

And you end up learning … not much.

A study of more than 2,300 undergraduates found 45 percent of students show no significant improvement in the key measures of critical thinking, complex reasoning and writing by the end of their sophomore years.

Not much is asked of students, either. Half did not take a single course requiring 20 pages of writing during their prior semester, and one-third did not take a single course requiring even 40 pages of reading per week.

The findings are in a new book, “Academically Adrift: Limited Learning on College Campuses,” by sociologists Richard Arum of New York University and Josipa Roksa of the University of Virginia. An accompanying report argues against federal mandates holding schools accountable, a prospect long feared in American higher education.

“The great thing — if you can call it that — is that it’s going to spark a dialogue and focus on the actual learning issue,” said David Paris, president of the New Leadership Alliance for Student Learning and Accountability, which is pressing the cause in higher education. “What kind of intellectual growth are we seeing in college?”

The study, an unusually large-scale effort to track student learning over time, comes as the federal government, reformers and others argue that the U.S. must produce more college graduates to remain competitive globally. But if students aren’t learning much, that calls into question whether boosting graduation rates will provide that edge.

“It’s not the case that giving out more credentials is going to make the U.S. more economically competitive,” Arum said in an interview. “It requires academic rigor … You can’t just get it through osmosis at these institutions.”

The findings also will likely spark a debate over what helps and hurts students learn. To sum up, it’s good to lead a monk’s existence: Students who study alone and have heavier reading and writing loads do well.

The book is based on information from 24 schools, meant to be a representative sample, that provided Collegiate Learning Assessment data on students who took the standardized test in their first semester in fall 2005 and at the end of their sophomore years in spring 2007. The schools took part on the condition that their institutions not be identified.

The Collegiate Learning Assessment has its share of critics who say it doesn’t capture learning in specialized majors or isn’t a reliable measure of college performance because so many factors are beyond their control.

The research found an average-scoring student in fall 2005 scored seven percentage points higher in spring of 2007 on the assessment. In other words, those who entered college in the 50th percentile would rise to the equivalent of the 57th after their sophomore years.

Among the findings outlined in the book and report, which tracked students through four years of college:

—Overall, the picture doesn’t brighten much over four years. After four years, 36 percent of students did not demonstrate significant improvement, compared to 45 percent after two.

—Students who studied alone, read and wrote more, attended more selective schools and majored in traditional arts and sciences majors posted greater learning gains.

—Social engagement generally does not help student performance. Students who spent more time studying with peers showed diminishing growth and students who spent more time in the Greek system had decreased rates of learning, while activities such as working off campus, participating in campus clubs and volunteering did not impact learning.

—Students from families with different levels of parental education enter college with different learning levels but learn at about the same rates while attending college. The racial gap between black and white students going in, however, widens: Black students improve their assessment scores at lower levels than whites.

Arum and Roksa spread the blame, pointing to students who don’t study much and seek easy courses and a culture at colleges and universities that values research over good teaching.

Subsequent research found students one year out of college are not faring well: One-third moved back home, and 10 percent were unemployed. The findings are troubling news for an engaged citizenry, Arum said. Almost half of those surveyed said they rarely if ever discuss politics or public affairs with others either in person or online.

The report warns that federally mandated fixes similar to “No Child Left Behind” in K-12 education would be “counterproductive,” in part because researchers are still learning how to measure learning. But it does make clear that accountability should be emphasized more at the institutional level, starting with college presidents.

Some colleges and universities do not need convincing. The University of Charleston, in West Virginia, has beefed up writing assignments in disciplines such as nursing and biology to improve learning.

President Edwin Welch is among more than 70 college and university presidents pledging to take steps to improve student learning, use evidence to improve instruction and publicize results.

“I think we do need more transparency,” Welch said. “I think a student at a private institution who might go into debt for $40,000 or $50,000 has the right to know what he can learn at the institution.”

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